The 3-3-3 Rule of Adopting a Cat

3 DAYS TO DECOMPRESS

BIG change

  • Trying to figure out their new
    environment/routine/family
  • A consistent routine is VERY important
  • Scared or unsure of what is going on

Feeling overwhelmed

Your new cat may:

  • Not eat or drink
  • Drink water excessively
  • Have accidents
    ◦ Miss the litterbox, engage in marking, or pee or poop in a hiding place
    ◦ Pee on objects associated with a specific person
  • Vocalize like yowling
  • Shut down or hides under furniture
  • Not engage in play or social behaviors
  • Be destructive
  • Other problem behaviors may occur

Physical stress signs

  • Dilated pupils
  • Wide eyes
  • Whiskers pointed toward body
  • Ears back
  • Tail tucked

3 WEEKS TO LEARN ROUTINE

  • Starting to respond to routine cues
  • May still hide but coming out more
  • Should use litterbox consistently (adults)
  • Reduction in stress signs
  • May still not engage in play or social behaviors
  • Other problem behaviors may occur
  • Consider seeking professional help
  • Find resources at pasadenahumane.org/behavior
  • You should be beginning to see if this is a “match”

3 MONTHS TO START TO FEEL AT HOME

  • Should understand routine and have adapted
  • Should engage in natural behaviors
  • Scratching, purring, kneading
  • Slow stretches, relaxed body when walking around
  • Taking treats gently
  • House soiling should be resolved (adults and older juveniles)
  • If adults/juveniles are house soiling
    ◦ Speak to a vet
    ◦ If medical concerns are ruled out, speak to a training professional
  • Other problem behaviors may occur
    ◦ Consider seeking professional help
    ◦ Find resources at pasadenahumane.org/behavior
  • You should be more confident that this is a “match”

For behavior & training resources, please visit pasadenahumane.org/behavior

* It’s always okay to return an adopted pet if it’s not working out. It may be best
for you and the pet. Please contact us at 626.792.7151 for assistance.

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